The Adonis Method

I have been experimenting with a few new styles [mainly a Mehow style–mixed in with a little Brad P] and some different approaches to alleviating AA. First off let me just say this… Fuck opinion openers and other ‘indirect or witty situational openers’!! “Social Openers” are all you need! What’s a social opener?? Here’s my favorite one: “Yooooooooo!”. Another fave: “Heeeeeeeeeyyyyyy!”. I’ve recently become more and more aware that game and actually just interacting with people in general has everything to do with subcommunication [hereafter referred to as subcom]. What do the above openers subcom? Well, I didn’t just say “yo” or “hey”…. I elongated them and said it with a chill energy, this says I’m warm, fun, expect them to open, and that I live on Planet Adonis–a bitchin’ place to be!

The next thing I do is playfully tease the loudest girl in set. This works much better than “negging the target” because “negs” are too easy to do wrong and if you neg your target instead of the loudest girl, you are telegraphing way too much interest up front. Some of my favorite teases: “you are so hot….for a total space alien” -or- “you are the coolest person I have met… in the last 30 seconds” -or- “I’ll bet you were the cutest little….hall monitor in junior high” {credit: Mehow]. Then your typical False Time Constraint i.e. “I have to go…My friends are here” -or- “I have to go…I have to feed my cat”.

Here I etiher launch into a PureKino routine, or if logistics aren’t quite right, I will do a Future/past projection routine. I may post more about these in a different post or you could just go to www.mehow.tv or www.myspace.com/mehowtv and see an example of Mehow doing them. [Note: you don’t have to do the gay voice he does to make them work…Mehow doesn’t really do that anymore either].

As for my results. I can say that I never got blown out of a single set on the approach all night [unless you count Maki (sp?) who was being a cute little munchkin brat–blocking all her friends from having fun if she wasn’t the center of attention…note to self, don’t flick her in the forehead]. I will be honest and say there were not a whole lot of sets last night, but I will say this [and I think Epik and Barlow will concur], the girls that were there were all generally attractive.

Most sets were textbook wash, rinse, repeat sets almost all gaining attraction, but nothing special happening. So I will focus on HBMetalhead. She was actually the first set I opened when I entered the venue. She was pointing at the bouncer or something when I walked in but I thought she was pointing at me [Brad P talks a lot about how when you get in the proper mental space you interpret everything as her liking you]. I open up with “Heeeeeeeyyyyy…. Don’t you know it’s rude to point [as I’m pointing at her!]…Hold out your hand.” She does, I playfully slap it.

HBMetalhead: “hahaha…I wasn’t pointing at you, I was pointing at the bouncer.”

Me: “Hahaha…sure you were… I have to find my friends…”

At this point her sister and her friend [the more social one of the group walk up. I immediately recognize the situation for what it is and open them before they can either drag HBMethalhead off…..”Heeeeeyyyyy Guys…. Whoah, you look feisty, I left my leash at home! {credit: Mehow]”. They laugh and are cool with the situation….With the set open, receptive, friendly and my bladder full, I say “I have to go”…I go pee.

When I come back out, I’m trying to call Epik at the other end of the bar… as I’m about to do that, the social friend comes over [HBMetalhead, being a more reserved girl sent in a confederate!] to find out who I was. I introduce myself to her and bust on her friends for not coming over and finding this stuff out for themselves. We banter a bit more then I tell her I have to make a call…. I know I have that set and can go over there later. I call Epik. Epik and Barlow enter. It’s time to have some fun!!

I go back over to re-open my set with Epik and Barlow…. Epik takes HBSocial and they tango across the floor. I bust on HBMetalhead for being chicken shit and sending a confederate. She says that I look really familiar and did I play in a band. I say guess which one. She says she can’t think of it, but she knows she’s seen me somewhere [when chicks like you they will say any cliche thing!]. I do my Feng Shui PureKino routine on her and then we talk about how she loves Nu-Metal [Bitchin’!…Me too!] Taking a cue from Epik who has sauntered back across the floor with HBSocial, I isolate HBMetalhead. Build all sorts of comfort with her and I’m fairly certain I have the girl, so I tell her after maybe 20 or so minutes of isolatation…”C’mon let’s go rejoin our friends”. I return with her to her friends and leave her with them to go make more friends and re-open later. I open many sets that night and get attraction with almost all of them. Which was good because I would notice HBMetalhead walking by while I’m doing PureKino routines on other girls or have them leaning into me and she is getting jealous with all the pre-selection social proof I’m building…

Throughout the night, I re-open her a few times and she is instantly compliant. I easily stole her away from more than a few AMOGs that night. This one is in the bag… Late in the night her sister and HBSocial decided they are going to drag her to Green St. She comes and finds me before she leaves [adorable!]. I tell her to pull out her phone, she tries to play coy

HBMH: “why?”

Me: “So I can put my number in it, goofball.”

HBMH: “I don’t call guys.”

Me: “And you also don’t answer numbers you don’t know”

HBMH: “hehehe… you’re right!”

Me: “ok, program this number and call me” I give her my number and she calls me with perfect timing…Her friends are dragging her away.

A textbook pickup!

As an epilogue to this tale, at 2:06am I get this text from HBMH. “I miss you by a sec, I pull up while you were walking around the corner “… So she doesn’t call guys….she texts them! Chick Logic…..

Adonis