The Adonis Method

I think it is important that every guy learn only one method to start. Master that one, then you can add other methods or fill in your sticking points with stuff from other gurus. One of my favorite gurus, Brad P, told me at a recent pickup summit that he guaranteed he has read far less on the subject than anyone else in the room. Reason being, if you study way too much it is extremely difficult to be fully present and in the moment as you interact with women. When you become completely out of your head and present that is when you can just flow and be ‘natural’. That being said, here is a list of my favorites:

1) Mystery: This guy practically invented the modern pickup arts. He has developed to the best of my knowledge the most complete method available that works particularly well at nightclubs and parties. There is a reason why he of all great PUAs has his own show: This guy gets it and has a lot of charisma. You can get the Venusian Arts Handbook online still…or better yet just pick up his bestseller hardback at Barnes and Noble or on Amazon. His 5 DVD video set is also recommended.

2) Click Here“>Juggler: I like his warm vibing approach. His method is very well suited for most day game approaches but is versatile and can often be used in night approaches as your skills progress. It is based on recognizing escalation points, and then doing just that: Escalating! His books “The Juggler Archive” and “How to Meet and Connect with Women” are a great start…or if you can find a copy of his DVD, that is also good.

3) Tyler Durden: Do not allow what “The Game” has to say about TD to affect your opinion of him. I don’t think any one else ‘gets it’ on as deep a level as TD does. This guy understands everything inside and out…not to mention the fact that he created a majority of the routines out there in common use and then threw them all away for a more natural vibe. I don’t recommend starting out with his stuff because it is extremely dense material…but as you master another method, TD will be the perfect guru to take it to the next level. I recommend his “Foundations” DVDs and the “Transformations” DVDs, not to mention the upcoming highly anticipated “Blueprint” [look for its release in December}]. Also, I think RSD has the best free newsletter bar none right now.

4) Mehow: Don’t let his YouTube “gay game” videos fool you, Mehow is a master. His book “Get The Girl” is one of my favorite books, but it has some limitations… It is really only useful for night game and it could be argued that it is just a rehashed version of the Mystery Method. I would agree that it is definitely just a nightclub/party specific variation, but implemented properly in a bar, it is pure dynamite… No DHV stories are necessary when she probably can’t hear you anyway–PureKino is the way to go here!

8 ) Style: No list would be complete without including Style. I’ve never been able to really use any of his routines personally, but a lot of guys wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for this guy. I can safely assume every guy here has either read or at least heard of “The Game”.